It’s Not Always About You

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Being in the presence of inconsiderate people, makes you wonder what is really on their minds.  It’s almost like they expect the world to revolve around them, but the reality is that it is not about them.  We as humans have those moments where things don’t go or people don’t act in the way we’d want, and it causes us to feel or act out in a negative manner.  The truth of the matter is, that Life is being lived by trillions of individuals, not just us individually. Just because life does not give us exactly what we want, doesn’t mean that life is wrong.  Life is just simply sending us the message: “It’s not always about you (us)!”   Let’s make a pact with ourselves to realize this as fact and live life accordingly.  It’s not about us individually, but the whole of humanity collectively.

Being An Ally To Yourself

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There is absolutely nothing wrong with being your own ally.  You are the one who lives with yourself 24/7, yet when it comes to others, you may pull on yourself to assist, to your own detriment.  “Self preservation is the first law of nature.”  If you can’t pull yourself up, if you can’t help yourself, if you can’t love you in the way that you should, what makes you think you can effectively help and show real love to others.  The best gift that you can give to those who love you, is to first love and take care of yourself.  Loving and caring for yourself, empowers you and also allows others to do the same for themselves and not expect you to be the ‘end all-be all‘, in their lives.  Be all that you can be towards yourself and the ones around you will follow suit.

There are trials and there are experiences…

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“Not every harsh thing that happens to us, is a trial.  Many times lessons come in the form of experiences for the greater good.  Lessons come to teach you something about yourself, or those around you.  Some lessons prepare you for an upcoming event or situation, in which you will need to handle in a certain way.  As you go through some of the ups and downs that life provides for us, remember that a seemingly negative situation may not be a trial, it may be an avenue to strengthen you for what is to come in the future.”

There is no such thing as “I give up.”

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There are only two states of doing things, either it’s being done or it’s not.  When you are in the process of giving up, you take yourself out of natural alignment.  Giving up, is not a state of being, it’s a state of not being. Not being committed, not being sure, not being loving to oneself and not being at all.  It’s time to erase many word, phrases and thoughts out of our lives, today and until the end of time-There is no such thing as giving up.

Change is good

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Sometimes things happen in life that create major changes in your life. These changes can shake you to your core, until you realize that a change can represent good things to come. Be not resistant to change, great things can be just on the horizon. Today’s Lesson: Change is good.

Keeping Pace With Yourself

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Sometimes it’s good to just slow down and take a deep breath, look at the trees and just enjoy being you.  Running around like a ‘chicken with it’s head cut off’ does not serve you or those around you.  You run so fast that you can’t even catch up with yourself.  It’s a lovely day outside, whether it’s raining, the sun is blazing or somewhere in between, learn to appreciate what is right in front of you.  Look at the birds, they fly just because they can, the bugs are happy just walking around in the dirt-learn from the example of animal, they do what is natural.  So sit back, catch up with yourself and know that tomorrow is another day.

Dreaming with a Purpose

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Dreaming is an action in it’s premature state.  Every action was once someone’s dream, every invention ever made is the result of someone’s dream becoming a reality.  Make sure when you have a dream, you make every effort to push your dream into action.  You never know the impact your present dream can have on another person’s future.